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phinnia ([personal profile] phinnia) wrote2006-10-16 03:07 pm

abuse of italics inside

Is Dance Dance Dance meant to be a sequel to A Wild Sheep Chase, or am I just confused in drawing parallels between them?


Meeting with the SLP next Monday (10/23.) Am going to suggest increasing speech therapy in his IEP (the OT was willing to sign off on increasing her service, so I figure it might be worth a shot.) I'm also giving a thought to private speech therapy in supplement to what he gets at preschool.

The way I see it, the lack of language is a much bigger problem - and it's difficult to address, because most ways of dealing with nonverbal kids involve pictures, and ... yeah.

I've got a call in to Children's Speech/Language services. We'll see what they say.


Where is the line between advocacy and being an ass? If I push for my kid to have more therapy, this may mean that some other child gets less therapy (inasmuch as there are only x hours in a given day). But I can't just sit around, not knowing what's causing this language delay - and half an hour a week or however much they have him in one on one therapy seems like so little and it feels like it makes no difference, and ARGH. *flails hands incoherently* I am not good with the sense-making today, I think. Did not sleep well. Woke up at 4:00AM because the boy had a nightmare and my hands were cold and stiff enough to be immobile. Ergh.

I think it would be easier if I just knew why, you know? It's not genetic - Chris was talking early, and I had normal language development. What the hell? But whenever I ask, it seems to get shrugged off, and it's really starting to piss me off. Why are we not trying to find the cause of this again? WTF.
</whine>


Child likes to lie on the floor, listening to music, sometimes rocking a little bit. It's a thing he does.
Neko: Oooh! I will play with The Small One! *bats at Sean's hair*
Sean: *shoves cat away*
Neko: A game! A game! *plays with Sean's hair*
Sean: *shoves cat away*
Lather/rinse/repeat. At least as long as the cat's attention span, anyway.


Is it just me, or is there something terribly wrong with the whole idea of this product? (probably not worksafe.)

Re: This will probably make you good and mad.

[identity profile] phinnia.livejournal.com 2006-10-16 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
*laughs dryly*
I know. And it makes me sick inside.
A little story in that vein - this was told to me by Sean's first vision therapist. She taught a little boy who was having a lot of problems learning braille - he got a lot of letters mixed up, particularly W and R (if you don't know braille; W is dot 2, 4 5 and 6; R is dots 1, 2, 3 and 5 - they're basically the inverse of each other). He had a family history of dyslexia, including at least one sibling with dyslexia. But the school district did nothing, over and over again, because how could he have dyslexia - he's blind. They tested him for dyslexia using transcriptions of the standard tests - which of course did nothing, because he didn't get b (dots 1 and 2) mixed up with d (dots 1, 4 and 5 - they look nothing alike).
Eventually he was able to get someone with a clue and get the help he needed. But people were so stupid about the whole thing, and it DOES make me good and mad. I bet you're right, that is what's happening here.