phinnia: (wish on everything)
phinnia ([personal profile] phinnia) wrote2009-04-15 03:36 pm

hm, small improvements?

spent the day so far talking to [livejournal.com profile] adularia, eating lunch, doing some minor internet goofing off and playing around with watercolor paint.

several things;


  • [livejournal.com profile] adularia is a fabulous girlfriend (i already knew this, as my girlfriends are both fabulous people. but it's always really great to have confirmation.)
  • holy crap i really can spend nearly two hundred dollars at lands' end buying new shoes and work clothes and jackets without hardly trying, god everything is so expensive these days and that's with most of the stuff on sale.
  • the previous statement made me both sound and feel incredibly old
  • i am obviously not super fabulous with paints but i am not as bad as i think and i remember more of the various stabs at lessons than i thought i did. (i am trying not to give a damn about being zomgperfect and just let myself play with things.
  • i'm hoping to unstick my brain by forcing it not to think about the normal things it chews on.
  • it must have worked because while i was goofing around i thought of how the thing was going to start. (and don't worry, Lau Yuan will remain with us.)
  • the past two days have been really good. clearly this early-bed thing is a good experiment and should go on.
  • because we complained about the bus thing, kid is now last on the bus route home (because it's way easier on me if the driver brings him to the door and they can't leave the bus unless there are no other kids on the bus) and gets home at or around 4pm. (he loves the bus. it's a win/win situation.)
  • madelines are my new favorite thing; they are so incredibly good. the perfect mix of cake and cookie. i need a madeline pan to make some at home.

[identity profile] sunsetsinthewes.livejournal.com 2009-04-15 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
So excited that you worked out Sean's bus thing. I know you appreciate the extra time and I know he loves the bus so, seriously, fun.

Did Kelly email/PM you?

[identity profile] phinnia.livejournal.com 2009-04-15 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
yes! the first one was eaten by something but i just got the other and am replying <3<3

[identity profile] icyblue.livejournal.com 2009-04-16 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
Have you read Marcel Proust's introduction to Remembrance of Things Past (http://www.haverford.edu/psych/ddavis/p109g/proust.html), about madeleines?

[identity profile] phinnia.livejournal.com 2009-04-17 02:05 am (UTC)(link)
i haven't read it, but i'm sort of aware of it? i know they're really significant in the book. thanks for linking it! *tucks it away*

[identity profile] thyroidstorm.livejournal.com 2009-04-16 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
HOW DO YOU HANDLE DATING (AT LEAST) THREE PEOPLE

I CAN BARELY PUT UP WITH ONE

[identity profile] phinnia.livejournal.com 2009-04-17 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
three, yes. and ... um. two of them are long distance? so it's a little easier that way i guess. i don't know. <3

[identity profile] thyroidstorm.livejournal.com 2009-04-17 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
ohh yeah, that would make it easier. lol i just couldn't imagine having three people always around, uugghhh...




no i really don't like people is the answer to your question.

[identity profile] phinnia.livejournal.com 2009-04-17 04:09 am (UTC)(link)
they're not around all the time - i make sure to take breaks (this helps in that one of my relationships is fully longdistance, one is most of the time long distance and the spouse works a lot, so i do have time to myself (if i didn't, i'd go nuts.))