It shouldn't be this difficult to find toys for your kids. Toys that aren't part of some huge set (which he will have zero interest in collecting at the moment), and aren't branded with $LICENSED_CHARACTER_DU_JOUR. Hell, it shouldn't be that hard to find CLOTHES that aren't branded with $L_C_D_J. But for some reason, it is.
I figure if Sean actually starts expressing an interest in the television, he can watch it. Right now the extent of his interest is 'hey, the Law and Order theme is pretty groovy'. But if he has no interest in these characters, why should I pay extra money for shoes/toys/clothes/whathaveyou which are only "better" or "different" than their counterparts by virtue of having some silkscreened picture of Whatever's Got The Seven Minutes Of Fame These Days?
(I know it was fifteen. I figure kids have shorter attention spans.)
And don't get me started on parents that buy designer labels for their infants and toddlers. Just ... WHY. News flash! (Bing! Reality!) The kid is going to outgrow it in a week and a half, trust me. And they won't own up to it being their own attempt at using their kids for a status symbol. (I had a sibling like this. She used to infuriate me. She also used to say 'when you have kids, you'll understand'. And then I had kids, and ... I still don't get it.)
When Sean was born, my MIL (back when we were still TALKING to my MIL) wanted to get Seaners a Harley-Davidson tricycle. And I said 'no, that's a ridiculous waste of money, why don't you just get him a regular tricycle and sock the rest in a savings bond or something, the kid is at drool and grin stage, Jesus CHRIST lady.' Then she started going on about how she had the money and this is how she wanted to spend it (probably in part due to her ex-con idiot husband). Then we stopped talking to her, so that was the end of that, pretty much. Sigh.
I have no problem with bikers, or anything like that, I'm just not interested in directing my child's interests to that degree.
Back to trying to find Seaners a half-decent birthday present or three. Maybe I'll just suck it up and just go to
Big Finnegan's or something. Sigh.
(I hate shopping in toy stores, mostly due to clueless other parents. I suppose if I survived Christmas Eve, next week is a cakewalk.)