conundrum

Apr. 26th, 2009 07:35 pm
phinnia: smiling dolphin face (leaf)
we talk about environmental awareness but most of our kids' interaction with nature is through man-made manicured spaces. we're expecting our children to eventually inherit and care for national parks and wildlife reserves, but the unspoken message is that nature is Not Safe and that manmade areas are superior. how will kids really have an idea of what they're caring for and why it's inherently valuable?

(yes, i did recently read 'last child in the woods'.)
phinnia: hand holding rock in pool (hand with rock)
it was a nice day, so we went to the park and had ice cream.

The park was really nice, and i got to test out the offroading capabilities of the wheelchair, and discovered that the park was more level and much nicer to drive around in than most of Seattle's residential neighborhoods' sidewalks. Chris and I were somewhat bumbling trying to figure out how to handle seaners on the playground equipment, and of course it turns out that seaners is better than both of us at finding his way around playground equipment. swings are a favorite but slides are an okay diversion. He went deep into Seanworld while swinging; i don't think i've ever seen him so happy playing by himself. now that i know how to get there we'll have to go more often.

icecream was delightful: i had balsamic strawberry and coffee, chris had coffee and chocolate. we got a kid-scoop of baby beet sorbet for seaners, who rejected it as he does all ice cream flavors (he had to have sorbet because dairy is an issue and we weren't sure that pomegranate curry sorbet would go over as well), but he enjoyed listening to the music playing in the shop (and we ate the baby beet sorbet, and it was absolutely amazing.)

next time i want to try and find the big chessboard at the park. and if it's warm there may be wading pool action. i wasn't kidding when i said that family outings don't happen around here; i don't remember when the last one was. this is probably a combination of my hermit nature and chris's tendency to work weekends, but it wasn't bad. the other parents did not bite me. i could go again at some point. (and i've found out that my usual reluctance to not go to parks because they are huge and exhausting is at least partly mitigated by the wheelchair. really most everywhere is easier with the wheelchair.) and the bouncy rubber stuff is much easier to drive on than sand would have been. (there aren't even sand play areas or places to just fool around in though, and that's kind of sad: that was one of the things that i liked about sand under the play structures. now there are the Designated Play Structures and manicured lawns. Oh, helicopter moms that fear nature. sad.)

then we went home, i fell asleep (normal response to being out under the daystar) and now there will be pizza. the end.

how are you?
phinnia: smiling dolphin face (zut!)
link from the lovely [livejournal.com profile] reannon, who also thinks this is a horrifyingly bad idea: four day school week proposed.

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO FUCK NO.

(this is the podmommies. i just know it. this was proposed by some freaky mother who waits on tenterhooks for their little darlings to come home so they can live life again.)

oh god no no no. such a horrifyingly BAD IDEA.

every time something like this happens - when they talk about making these wonderful changes to the school week or year or what have you - I have to fight down terror that this means i'll never manage to get actual work done because some parent somewhere with no reason for living unless their little angel is stapled to their hip starts pulling this kind of crap.

(yes, it is an irrational fear. i know that. as much as i still don't want to go to therapy tomorrow, i'll probably go, and eventually it'll get around to this stuff. that's going to be fun. i keep telling myself that they're not going to use the same immersion therapy they do on things like spider phobias.

probably.

i hope.)

(god, standard cognitive behavioral therapy doesn't work on me. i've tried. and failed. many times. augh.)

also, here's an awesome link about the success of the international polar year which was 2008. there's some great sidebar links about antarctica. i'll be here with my heating pad and my intensely sore joints quietly panicking over this four day school week crap.

clickies

Feb. 8th, 2009 02:32 pm
phinnia: smiling dolphin face (house/olivia-!)
Today we ALMOST went to the children's museum! we did actually meet [livejournal.com profile] tiggrrl and her sweet little sproglet, but we got horribly lost before that and the wheelchair for some reason didn't charge and AUGH. but we did get to have snacks together. and we're going to attempt the park next week (here's hoping.)

clickies:

All of these I think I've seen more than once on my flist; i just forget who.

Jennifer Mather, squid psychologist.

interview with terry pratchett about his alzheimer's and his best work.

This one is especially important to me because it's a HUGE pet peeve of mine: the founder of the antivaccine movement faked the autism/vaccine link. I know there are a few legitimate reasons for not vaccinating or for delaying vaccinating (egg allergies, bad reactions to previous vaccines, kids with immune system problems) but the majority of kids get more benefit than not. (not to mention that bloody woman (Jenny McCarthy i think her name is) that was on Oprah or whatever show it was claiming that she cured her son and blahblah about vaccines are so bad and they caused the kid's autism? she's a former playboy bunny. she does not have an ounce of medical training. and yet people are willing to take her word on this.)

(sorry. i just really hate the whole thing. hatehatehate. it's like giving children raw milk instead of pasturized. there's a reason kids used to die in the middle ages.)

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